The Art Of Confession

I dare not to say myself is the master of confession; as I had failed ( not to mention miserably) few times before.

However, from my understanding and conversation with both males and females, it is safe to say that whatever that being portrayed in the scene(s) of love movies are usually NOT gonna happen.(because its scripted, duhhh!)

Therefore, I wanna share out, the steps/things you do that will most likely will get rejected even though she shows signs of liking you.

1) Confessing to her - OUT OF THE BLUE!

You had been trying to find opportunities to tell to her that you like her; but to no avail.

When you had the opportunity/ies, you chickened out.

Then, one fine day, you say to yourself "Die jiu Die la, Just do IT".

then, you really die!

Reason :

• you caught her off-guard and she don't know how to react. So saying NO would be the best option at the moment
• you made her feels that you are an unorganized person; rushing in making decision and that's a turn off
• it's not romantic; as much as she likes surprises, but this is too sudden
• You're not much far different from a flasher.

2) Confession through SMS/MSN/FB, PHONE-call etc

This just shows that you don't have the guts, you no ballerz!

This kind of thing, you just go do it like a man! Face-2-face, macha!

( I know of few success story though but still, it's not the way, man!)

3) Confessing while doing something else.

The something else could be driving, playing ps3, crossing the road.

This shows that you are taking this relationship lightly i.e not serious.

This method could/might able for you to find excuse should you fail, but it's the main reason for her to reject you.

4) Confessing with empty-handed and wearing like you are going to pasar malam.

It's not saying that she is materialistic. I used to think that if she really likes you, she will accepts you for who you are, not what you have to offer.

But that's wrong, man.

The gift don't have to be a expensive bouquet of roses, or an expensive fine dining for two.

It can be as simple as a love letter, love note, or even a poetry! (girls digg nice poetry)

Because when you showed up empty-handed, it shows that you are not well-prepared for this. You do not plan for it. You think you can get it just like that.

In short, you are showing that you are MAKING NO EFFORT to make this works.

Besides, you made her think that she is cheap, she is easy.

All in all, a pre-planned confession, with true sincere efforts on the correct timing would surely able to touch her heart.

But of course, ultimately, she need to feel the same way too; or else no matter what you do, or how perfect it is, brings no meaning.

I wish happiness to all the lovers under the sky.

Happy Valentine's day!