STUNNED!

from my past experience in relationship
- i got cheated by a same girl twice
- i got my time wasted on a girl whom didn't like me at all

its sucks, to be hurt emotionally
physical pain will be forgotten but emotional pain stays for long

From the experiences, i dare to say i'm totally lost confidence in the thing called love
on top of that, the increase of the divorce rate
i'm start to believe that its just a affection between two person that got them together and the affection won't last long..
i no longer believe that a person will go to distance to fight for their love...

but what happened today totally amazed me!

INTRO la dulu!
My housemate M has a girlfriend N of dunno how many years
they are about 400km apart (M in Johor, N in Selangor)
recently, N's senior,P is kinda close to her....
N told M about this, but he has no problem with it at 1st (she have the right to have her own friend wan mer)
then N starts to mention more of this P in their conversation
more, more , more and more..
up until 1 moment M feels insecure
i dunno what happens next, but i overheard(not on purpose) that he broke up with her...

it reminds me of what happened to me 2 yrs ago...
its exactly same situation
i ended up, gone case!

Now : The Real Deal
but what makes me wana write this post is at approximately 1130pm juz now, the girl, N appeared at the door of the house im living now!
she went allllllll the way from Sel to Johor (which is almost equal from KL drive to PG)
just to rescue her relationship
i was stunned for 5 sec when i saw her!
i thought i was dreaming/ hallucinating!
seriously, i was touched
even tho im not the main character!
i now salute the girl, N!
and i double salute her parents who fetch her to come here

i have the concept of "girls are pure evil"
but today, it changed the concept a little bit
just a little bit, okay?

Comments

Anonymous said…
Benji, don't give up ok? You will find the right person one day. Your past experiences and failures are important for you to KNOW when you finally meet the right girl for you. *hugz* Don't lose faith yet
September 17, 2007 3:45 AM
pinksterz said…
you will meet The Girl one day, it is just a matter of time.

*hugs*

p.s. i am being considerate here, so not all girls are pure evil. ever the pinkMONsterz. hmph.
September 17, 2007 7:47 AM
angelinemiss said…
clk u.. u say all girls pure evil, u're pointing to ur mum oso k... not all like dat k... GRRRRRrrrrrr
September 17, 2007 4:35 PM
LeangFM said…
bell : u come my blog but still remember benji!?!?!?! hwaaaaa~~~`
nola jk jk .... only time will tell

PINKmonSTERZ : u self admit u r a monsterz??
ya, i'll leave that matter to time =D
September 17, 2007 5:28 PM
LeangFM said…
angeline :
#1 i didnt say ALL :P (read properly)

#2 my mom is a WOMAN oledy!(auntie level)

#3 u r an evil yourself! Bluekkkkkk~
September 17, 2007 5:31 PM
Chung Hwa said…
Well as they say, don't let a bad egg make you throw away the whole basket. Your misfortune in the past is an experience which is as rare and unique as a 2 headed cow. The next one wont be like that 1 la... If history can repeat itself again like tat means you really can kena lottery ade
September 17, 2007 5:33 PM
LeangFM said…
let it repeat!
*eyes n mouth drooling at the lottery prize money*
hehehehehe
September 17, 2007 5:59 PM
R said…
join cornetto's love perhaps! lol
September 18, 2007 6:35 AM
Anonymous said…
gomen gomen... *hugz* I blog hop hop hop until blur... *hugz* I don't mean to ok?
September 18, 2007 3:45 PM
LeangFM said…
robb : hahaha, no nid so express kua?

bell : i know, i juz whine for fun only =)
*hugz* back!
September 18, 2007 6:39 PM
Genova said…
must be a 'holy shit!' when u saw her.
thats rare tooo...
September 18, 2007 10:29 PM
LeangFM said…
like i said ... a 5sec stun! heehee
September 19, 2007 12:09 AM
SpikeySpikey said…
Wow, that's a quite a sweet story :) But yeah Bone, don't give up based on your previous bad experiences. I believe there's someone for everyone out there. Good luck! Don't lose hope.
September 22, 2007 12:50 AM
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