His and Hers

when 2 of my close friends start to date each other,
man, i was surely delighted and blessed them.

then, they start to have their own world
even when going for an outing
what used to be a group of 10 had become 8+2

but its okay...
the outing is still fun so no big deal

however, not all couples are meant to be together forever
they didn't plan it that way,
but somehow,they broke up

now there's where the problem starts
after the break-up, it's not that we can easily back to the initial group of 10

when asked both to come out for an outing,
i have to face the risk of a heated argument
well, not everytime but at times, he/she will "cari gaduh" with the other one even tho it was just a small-small matter.

but I can't just simply pick one and ignore the other..
for sure the one who got left out will transform into "justice bao"

*not the fight for justice, but the black face*

i understands that, after breaking-up
whats his is his and what hers is hers

what I don't understand is y her friends can't be his friends
and y his friend can't be her friends?
we are all friends la~~~!!!
who gave you the power to decide who is who's friend,huh?

aft i broke up with my ex, my best friend became her god-bro
and even treated her a TGIF dinner
whereas he never even treated me McD before
can i blame her for snatching my best friend away?

NO!!
its HIS decision to bring her out
its HIS decision to become her godbro
she didn't held him at her gunpoint!


Miss You-know-who-you-r,
i am his friend of 14yrs, one of his bestest
i am your friend of 7yrs
just because i knew him first, that doesn't means i can't be friends with you
i didnt choose any side, coz you both ARE my friends!
same goes to your besties
just because they knew you 1st before him, it doesnt mean that they cant be friend with him

Comments

Lasker said…
Yeah .. this is tough. You pick, you are wrong, you dont pick, you will be wronged ..

haih .. keksim.

Try this :
You have a gf .. your gf's best friend is dating your best friend. :)
And when they break up?
*speechless*
April 07, 2008 9:00 AM
Chee Ching said…
>_<

Sometimes its tough, I don't even want my ex to find me actually.

Don't know why ><
April 07, 2008 1:11 PM
Anonymous said…
2 very sensitive best frens

remember, dun get in between them...treat em as separate entities....
April 08, 2008 12:01 AM
Anonymous said…
hard to be a mediator in this kind of situation.

i think i would just be neutral and continue be friends with both sides regardless of whose wrongs.
April 08, 2008 10:25 AM
Chung Hwa said…
Eh.. Sejak bila tat fella belanja her TGIF!!! Kanne tak nampak he belanja me hokkien mee oso!! Must extort him ade
April 08, 2008 1:47 PM
LeangFM said…
lasker : been there, done that

chingy : understandable :)

anonymous : sometime got clash also one mer, esp when in the same pool of friends

renaye : if i choose sides, i early early wont join her for outing liao lor

chunghwa : lol, wear skirt k? i think will stand a better chance
April 08, 2008 4:51 PM
SaeWei said…
Wear skirt got ppl chia TGIF??? How come i always wear also boh lang chia keh??? XD

Erm.. I'm just glad that I only know one of them and not both of them.. I'm kinda "tiok che kia" to find out that a person can be this sensitive at such thing.. But still she's our friend..

Moral Of The Story Is...
When a friend wanna date a friend, stop that friend before it happen!!!!! Hahahaa
April 08, 2008 6:07 PM
AaronWoolala said…
oh shit! Stop Saewei!!! XD
April 09, 2008 3:13 AM
SaeWei said…
Woolala: too late jor!!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
April 09, 2008 9:30 AM
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