When Girl Meets Boy
I remembered I read this at some blog long time ago, but can't recall the author
Girl, classify their opposite gender into two "stairs"
One is the Friendship Stairs (FS)
Another One is Potential Stairs (PS)
Those who fall into FS, will be always ALWAYS remain as FRIENDS ONLY, regardless how close the boy&girl can be. Its either He is the "Jimuis" or She is the "HengDai" (maximum)....
That's why all girls do have a male friend that she will never be with..
Whereas for those fall into PS, are those that able to get her heart pumping rapidly, numb knees, hair twisted etc etc ...
Even at many case, his criteria might not be as good as the #1 in the FS, but still, she will choose PS over the FS.
Let's take a scenario.
Danny likes this Yvonne very much. Danny is sweet, loving, caring and made a lot of effort to get into Yvonne's heart. However, Danny falls into her FS.
On the other hand, there is this guy, Willy. He is funny and outgoing. He would call her and make her laugh. He too on the tail of this Yvonne, but relatively, he dont spend as much as Danny will do, but Willy is from the PS.
Danny will go mountain high just to find some water for her, but Willy just make some silly jokes of water, that she forgot she wants to have water.
In any cases, if Danny stands at her door with 99 roses while Willy with 1 lidi, both proposing to her, Willy have higher chance.
Reason why? because Danny is FRIENDS ONLY and Willy is POTENTIAL.
Now you may ask, how to get into POTENTIAL staircase of the 1 you like so that she can like you back?
There is no direct answer, buddy!
It all depends on her 'checklist'. She got a list of criteria of men she is looking for (which usually resembles her father). and what's more amazing? she can decide whether you are FS or PS, within 4 minutes of conversation. Longest would be 1 outing together.
You see, sometimes its not about how much effort you spend and give into a relationship. Its about whether the one you looking for, is looking for you.
p.s : there are chances that one might 'jump' from friendship stair to potential staircase. but its very thin, chance
I would suggest you go find another one, that you make your way into her potential staircase and then charm her
=)
Girl, classify their opposite gender into two "stairs"
One is the Friendship Stairs (FS)
Another One is Potential Stairs (PS)
Those who fall into FS, will be always ALWAYS remain as FRIENDS ONLY, regardless how close the boy&girl can be. Its either He is the "Jimuis" or She is the "HengDai" (maximum)....
That's why all girls do have a male friend that she will never be with..
Whereas for those fall into PS, are those that able to get her heart pumping rapidly, numb knees, hair twisted etc etc ...
Even at many case, his criteria might not be as good as the #1 in the FS, but still, she will choose PS over the FS.
Let's take a scenario.
Danny likes this Yvonne very much. Danny is sweet, loving, caring and made a lot of effort to get into Yvonne's heart. However, Danny falls into her FS.
On the other hand, there is this guy, Willy. He is funny and outgoing. He would call her and make her laugh. He too on the tail of this Yvonne, but relatively, he dont spend as much as Danny will do, but Willy is from the PS.
Danny will go mountain high just to find some water for her, but Willy just make some silly jokes of water, that she forgot she wants to have water.
In any cases, if Danny stands at her door with 99 roses while Willy with 1 lidi, both proposing to her, Willy have higher chance.
Reason why? because Danny is FRIENDS ONLY and Willy is POTENTIAL.
Now you may ask, how to get into POTENTIAL staircase of the 1 you like so that she can like you back?
There is no direct answer, buddy!
It all depends on her 'checklist'. She got a list of criteria of men she is looking for (which usually resembles her father). and what's more amazing? she can decide whether you are FS or PS, within 4 minutes of conversation. Longest would be 1 outing together.
You see, sometimes its not about how much effort you spend and give into a relationship. Its about whether the one you looking for, is looking for you.
p.s : there are chances that one might 'jump' from friendship stair to potential staircase. but its very thin, chance
I would suggest you go find another one, that you make your way into her potential staircase and then charm her
=)
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