Wedding Invitation

I remember attended a wedding dinner, where the couple made a huge effort in planning their wedding.It was held in nice ballroom, with thoughtful decorations, asking the guests to come one hour earlier by providing pre-dinner cocktail to beat the Malaysian timing attitude . It started with the couple themselves performing the opening gig etc etc... A friend of mine, whom sat across to me, said this sentence that goes along the line like this: "Wahh.... do until so powerr.... raise the bar so high.... siao liao... my wedding gotta raise my game to topple that!" While there is nothing wrong with the statement, however I disagree with the fact the wedding ceremony is being looked as if it is a competition - as if we are entering a one-off performance of "So You Think You Can Throw A Wedding Dinner" contest. Yes. It is an awesome wedding dinner. Yes. It makes the guests go gaga. Yes. It is filled with a lot of romantic gestures. But no, my own wedding doe...