tension of opposite pt 2
there's 1 thing i've learnt thru out this 2 yrs in university
Ppl tend 2 look at ur bad side 1st before they look on ur +ve intention
take these situation
its actually no matter how good u do ur thing,
ppl tend 2 like 2 see u fall... esp those who r on top
amazing, eh ?
- u saw ur friend hvg difficulties in solving a problem, u in the oth hand knew d solution, so u thought of helping him out ....... instead of getting the crdt, u got ppl saying u showing-off u r smart
- u stand out voluntarily because u r confident that u r able to do the task in a class, u got ppl saying u r trying 2 impress d lect ( or worse, polishing lecturer's shoe)
- u saw 2 group of ur friend having an argument/fighting , so u went n talk peace betw d two,with the intention of finding peace, u got ppl saying u r naive
- u trying ur best 2 spend as little as possible, because u wana save some money [ n because ur family is not made of money], n thus u dun pay 4 unnecessary things, ppl say u kiam siap(stingy)
its actually no matter how good u do ur thing,
ppl tend 2 like 2 see u fall... esp those who r on top
amazing, eh ?
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i used 2 fuss abt it, coz this ppl say me this, i'll take it straight 2 heart n try becoming a "better" person...
but end up, the "better" person is so NOT me, therefore , now im 2 hell with it,... haha
most ppl in tis world is like wat bubbly soda say..(well,not i not opstimate,but is true)
wat u can do now is:
1) like bubbly say, continue untill got ppl see ur good side (but tis normally happen when u are not here anymore)
2) dun care wat ppl say, continue ur own stylis~~wat ever la!
3) since all say u like tis ody lo, then y u stil wan be good guy? juz chance to wat they all say la...doesn't ba bad guy feel more better?
(P/S: ini hanyalah my opinoin semata mata sahaja,tiada kaitan dgn mati pun yg hidup)